One of the most difficult trials of a senior mission is leaving home and family. We knew this going in and are grateful we chose this path, but we long to be home at times to lend our support and love. This past week and yesterday was another poignant time when we long to be home.
Our dear daughter-in-law, Brittney, has been suffering for a time with nausea and general "not feeling well." Marc has been keeping us up-to-date (somewhat) on what is happening and we have been doing the only thing we can do-- praying for her. As a mother, I fully understand how difficult it is to be ill and have to continue to care for a nursing 4-month old and a hyper smart and active 2-year old. You drag yourself around and just go through the motions of living.
Yesterday, she had surgery to remove her gallbladder. This means some recovery time and we hope some time to catch up on rest. Times like this try all senior missionaries -- we want so much to be home to help. Brittney, we love you and send our prayers for your recovery and renewal of "mother/wife/sister/homemaker" strength. People often say that they wish you a "quick" recovery. Brittney, we wish you a complete, relaxing (yah right), and healthful recovery. Take your time!
We have reflected of late hearing about Brittney's condition and knowing the frantic life she is keeping in being a mother with young children and marvel at our children's strength and endurance. We are grateful that our son, Marc, is showing compassion and taking his fatherly responsibilities seriously of entertaining the children, changing diapers, and preparing meals. We know from personal experiences that he can cook mac 'n cheese and chicken nuggets and he likes to eat them. We understand that he is away most of the day at work and are thankful that when he is home, he is home. Yesterday, we called several times and found him holding Ali, taking the kids for a milk shake at In and Out, and putting the children to bed so that they could have a sense of "normal" during this experience.
We are learning a new appreciation for "in-laws." Cindy, Brittney's mother, is wonderful. She is giving so much time and care that only a mother can give, but also giving so much to the two little one's who love Grandma Cindy.
Through trials come our blessings and we are seeing blessings come to our children. We wish they didn't have to have trials, but that is the only way we are strengthened.
Lest our Adrian and Curt feel left out, we love you and miss you, also. We have smiled each time we see our children get together supporting each other. We are grateful for family and the strength of family.
This week finds us traveling to the west of the island where we have limited Internet access. Catch you for the update when we get back on Saturday. Love and Kisses -- Mom and Dad